Thinking ahead about possible regrets

The most common ones: Where did the time go? It seemed like she was so small only yesterday, and now she's off to college. Also: 2016-05-185 Could I have done anything to catch things earlier, help her more, protect her better, support her more? 2016-05-185 2016-05-18a (I don't know who I am. Iwithout her. I wish we I wish I didn't 2016-05-18 We focused so much on her that we neglected. ourselves, each other, and other people. 2016-05-180